UK Dating Coach - Tammy James

Tammy James - UK dating coachHere at Smart Dating, we're pleased to have UK dating coach, Tammy James, head of itsnotyouitsme.co.uk relationship coaching on board to provide you with all the support and advice you need to navigate successfully through the dating game. Tammy runs a coaching practice that specialises in helping single people get back in to dating and successfully build positive relationships; she is also an agony aunt, providing answers to a range of relationship issues.

Read her dating advice on our blog.

Got a dating question or dilemma you want answered? Ask Tammy your questions and she'll respond to you personally within 24 hours.

About Tammy

Following a messy divorce, I found myself back in the dating game, however, the rules had completely changed! I realised I needed to understand more about what I wanted in a relationship and decode the world of dating to be able to regain my confidence, move on and get back out there. The advice I provide my clients with about dating and relationships is tried and tested from someone who knows how hard it can be to get back into the dating scene and feel good about yourself.

Working professionally in the field of people development, I realised that my success in dating came from applying lots of the thinking I used to help individuals develop their careers. By changing the emphasis from business to relationship development, I have been able to create coaching techniques that help individuals move forward, build their confidence and successfully build relationships.

Itsnotyouitsme.co.uk provides one to one coaching (face to face, telephone or online) and workshops to help you work out your style of dating and focus on what you need to do in order to improve your existing relationship or find a new partner.

For further information visit www.itsnotyouitsme.co.uk Quote SMARTDATE11 for a £25 discount off your first coaching session or the cost of a dating workshop.

Follow me on Twitter at @itsnotyouitsme_

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