Frequently asked questions

I'm just outside the age range, can I still attend?

Yes - the age ranges specified are guidelines only. However, if you are well outside the age range you may be less likely to get as many matches.

How many dates will I get?

You will normally get between fifteen and twenty-five dates at the event, although some events, particularly in provincial towns, are smaller. In our experience thirty dates is a sensible maximum as speed dating is quite tiring. How many dates you go on AFTER the event depends on how many people you liked and who liked you!

Who is it for?

YOU - if you are single, unattached, separated, divorced or widowed. These events are to meet new people in your area and strike up new friendships and long term relationships.

How will I get my matches

You just log into our web site after the event (with the user name and password you have received when you booked) and input your own selections. If you've followed step 2 (completed your profile) before the event it will improve your chances of a match.

The web site matching system enables you to view a profile of the people that attended, check your matches and send them one message with the contact details you wish to pass on.

Most women tend to give an email address initially and only give their phone number if they want to take things further.

Men often give out an email address and phone number straight away. In order to maximise your chances of being contacted by a match you should be at least provide an email address.

If you don't have an email address we recommend that you set one up before the event. If you have internet access you can set up a free email at www.yahoo.co.uk , otherwise most internet cafes will be happy to help.

What if I am not attracted to someone as soon as I see them?

At the end of the day we all need friends, so even though you don't fancy someone, you may click as friends. Even if this isn't the case, being polite is the rule of thumb - you never know when you might meet that person again.

We recommend that you make the most of those three minutes. You never know if that person may be a perfect match for a friend of yours who has not been brave enough to come along yet!

What if the event is full?

We have to manage numbers carefully to ensure equal numbers of men and women at our events. However, we are often able to take additional bookings that do not affect the balance of numbers - for instance, two men and two women. Just give us a call on 0870 750 6392 to find out the current situation for the event you want to attend.

We regularly add new dates in different towns and cities so make sure you don't miss out by signing up for our newsletter.

What should I write to someone who I have a mutual match with?

It is important to remember that you can only send one message through our system so be sure to include some contact details so you continue to communicate with your matches. Keep it simple and be friendly.

Hi 'Marlon',

Smart Dating UK tell me that we had a mutual match on Thursday night.

It would be good to meet up for a drink when you are free so we can chat more about your interest in scuba diving! Hope to speak to you soon.

My personal e-mail address is sarah@yahoo.com and my mobile number is 07970 1234568

Sarah

Will I feel out of place coming on my own?

No! You'll get a warm friendly welcome and we'll make sure you have a great time. After all - you are coming because you're single! This is your chance to make new friends and meet that special somebody.

Will three minutes be long enough?

Three minutes is long enough to know if you want to see someone again and short enough for those you definitely wouldn't! Making notes about your various dates will help you remember them when your matches come through!

You're not going to get to know someone's life history in three minutes, but you should be able to tell if you like what they say, their smile makes you go weak at the knees or there's the right chemistry.

If you don't find the answer to your particular question lease do email us on info@smartdatinguk.com.