I found eharmony gave me 6 matches a day i.e. 42 a week and I found it very difficult to keep on top of as I didn’t log in every day. Most "matches" didn’t wish to communicate with me and many I clearly had nothing in common with. So much for compatibility! Suffice to say I quit after 1 month because it was getting ridiculous.

 Neil Uk - Fri 11 Jun

You have to be patient and flexible. The fact that you don’t trawl through photos yourself eliminates the "meat market" aspect. The gradual controlled contact is safe and sensible. I joined eharmony before it had a uk site, but said I was willing to travel anywhere. I was about to give up, when I was matched with a man in the US, to whom I am now married. This site is better than most (an I tried quite a few)--and worked for us!

 Josie - Wed 7 Oct

Many of the people that I’ve been matched with have yet to post a photo, so it’s impossible to tell if there would be a spark. The site also doesn’t really think through the geography part: I was willing to travel 60 miles(I live in Plymouth), and got paired with someone in Scotland (they add the distance you’re both willing to travel, and combine them!).

 S. Nokes - Sun 9 Aug

I was unsure at first because everything took so bleeding long, but now that I am getting some recommended people through a few times a week I can see how thorough the service is and it’s quite exciting when you get a new match as you know the system has found some form of compatibility, not just a random who as stumbled across your profile.

 Stacey, Harrogate - Tue 21 Jul

Very disappointing. I spent around 45 minutes filling out their huge personality test to find there were no matches for me. Whats more, because eHarmonys approach to dating (i.e. they match you based on your personality) I caould not check out other profiles which left me frustrated at feeling at the mercy of their scientific system.

 Chris, Gloucestershire - Wed 1 Jul

Brilliant site all round

 John, Newcastle - Tue 12 May

I tried online dating before but Eharmony was where I found love! Thank you, Eharmony!

 Nicole, Essex - Tue 12 May

After all that time spent on my profile, Eharmony only let me see a handful of supposed matches - none of which particularly appealed to me. Id like to be able to use my own brain to spot attractive people. Thumbs down.

 Michael D. - Fri 1 May

Really good. If you who a serious relationship, go to eHarmony!

 Emma - Thu 12 Mar

It takes a fair amount of time to get started (they gather a lot of information from you) but the matches are fab.

 T.b. - Sun 11 Jan