Guys, as you walk her back to her front door and she’s turns to you with the keys in her hand, your heart races. How to kiss her? Do you kiss her on the cheek? Do you kiss her on the lips? Surely not just a handshake? A full on snog? The first date kiss decision is crucial to make or break a perfect evening.

Women, do you wait for the guy to make the moves? Do you play it hard to get and just let him peck you on the cheek? Or, do you take the bull by the horns and kiss him? The dilemma of how, or if you should kiss on the first date!

Depending on how the night went, both of you will have a pretty good idea of how “full-on” you want that kiss to be. But so often shyness creeps in, and that perfect night can end up missing the proper kiss that it was crying out for.

Key is to know the signs

Whilst most women will happily take the lead and guide the process, many naturally wait for the guy to take the initiative. Here are the most common signs that a woman will want her date to kiss her:

• She’ll be facing him
• Her arms will be down by her side
• She’ll be holding his eye contact

If she’s not facing him, and her eyes are wandering elsewhere then it is almost certain that she is giving him the red light. Getting the kiss right at the end of the night can put the perfect end on a perfect night, or leave an embarrassing glitch until your next date (if there is another date!).

It’s pretty useful to be able to tell if someone likes you or not. Many men claim to be spectacularly bad at ‘reading’ signs of attraction shown by women, whereas many more women seem to have the knack of knowing whether they’re fancied or not. So why do so many of us get it so wrong, and how can we learn to read the signs of sexual attraction?

If you’re really keen on someone, there’s more at stake, and so it gets even harder to work out whether you’re fancied or not it return. Being able to read body language has to be a great skill doesn’t it? In all sorts of situations, not just the romance department. For those of you missing the cues time after time, swat up on these sure signs of body language attraction, say hello to more successful dating and goodbye to hopeless romantic blunders.

Signs of Attraction

• Fiddling with hair, or a necklace
• Being nervous or excited around someone
• For men, shoulders back, chest slightly puffed out
• For women, shoulders back and slightly arched back
• Dilated pupils
• Holding eye contact
• Woman will expose the inside of wrists and palms; a gentle gesture indicating a desire for communication
• For men, hands on hips or in belt loops highlights the genitals, and shows readiness for involvement! A sure sign of sexual attraction
• Leaning in towards someone while communicating

Knowing the signs of physical attraction could mean the difference between a beautifully well timed and confident parting kiss, square on the lips, and a hasty head turn at the wrong moment leading to an embarrassed exit by a couple of red faces who’s paths never cross again. Get it right and no-one leaves with egg on their face!