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		<title>Study Shows That Attractive Men Have Better Dating Profiles</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 12:22:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>News Hound</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating tips and advice]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Confidence]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Villanova University in Philadelphia has revealed its newest study that shows that the most attractive men have the ability to convey this through just their written online dating profiles alone. In the study female volunteers were shown online dating profiles, &#8230; <a href="http://www.smartdatinguk.com/blog/dating-tips-and-advice/attractive-men-have-better-dating-profiles/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Villanova University in Philadelphia has revealed its newest study that shows that the most attractive men have the ability to convey this through just their written online dating profiles alone. In the study female volunteers were shown online dating profiles, and were able to gauge the attractiveness of the man before seeing their profile photos.</p>
<p>The study was conducted using 50 female student volunteers, 25 of which rated photographs, and 25 that rated their text profiles, so that there was no overlap, and no chance of one influencing the other.</p>
<p>Rebecca Brand, the psychologist that led the study, surmised the results with: &#8220;Our data suggests that attractive individuals wrote texts (profiles) that conveyed confidence, and it was perhaps this confidence which primarily signalled quality to the women&#8221;.</p>
<p>From my experience with the ladies (which is vast), I can confirm that confidence is a key factor in the attraction factor, as I&#8217;m sure a lot of other people can too. It looks like online dating isn&#8217;t any different in that respect.</p>
<p>What do you make of the study? Share you thoughts in the comments section below!</p>
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		<title>An Attraction to Our Own Faces &#8211; Vanity or Just Normal?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2011 05:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>News Hound</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new dating website, FindYourFaceMate.com, has launched. This site follows a recent new trend of &#8216;face matching&#8217;, such as similar website Soul2Match.com. Both websites are based on the scientific principle that people are subconsciously attracted to people who share similar facial features to &#8230; <a href="http://www.smartdatinguk.com/blog/dating-site-news/find-your-face-mate/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new dating website, <a  href="http://www.findyourfacemate.com/">FindYourFaceMate.com</a>, has launched. This site follows a recent new trend of &#8216;face matching&#8217;, such as similar website <a  href="http://www.soul2match.com/">Soul2Match.com</a>. Both websites are based on the scientific principle that people are subconsciously attracted to people who share similar facial features to them.</p>
<p>FindYourFaceMate says that &#8220;Scientists have confirmed the special facial recognition feature in the brain that responds selectively to faces; proving that faces are unlike all other stimuli&#8221;.</p>
<p>Soul2Match also discusses the scientific principles, tracing them back even to Aristophanes discussing the concepts in Ancient Greece. They claim to have based their webstie on &#8220;comprehensive research&#8221; from <a  href="http://www.soul2match.com/info/pages/idea/">numerous scientific studies</a>.</p>
<p>Both sites essentially take the phrase &#8216;love at first sight&#8217;, and attempt to use that as their matching algorithm basis. Obviously, the sites do this using facial recognition software. What do you think of a scientific explanation behind &#8216;love at first sight&#8217;? Let us know in the comments.</p>
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		<title>First date kiss &#8211; should you or shouldn&#039;t you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 16:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Smart Dating UK</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating tips and advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What to do? Guys, as you walk her back to her front door and she&#8217;s turns to you with the keys in her hand, your heart races. How to kiss her? Do you kiss her on the cheek? Do you &#8230; <a href="http://www.smartdatinguk.com/blog/dating-tips-and-advice/first-date-kiss/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>What to do?</h2>
<p>Guys, as you walk her back to her front door and she&#8217;s turns to you with the keys in her hand, your heart races. How to kiss her? Do you kiss her on the cheek? Do you kiss her on the lips? Surely not just a handshake? A full on snog? The <strong>first date kiss</strong> decision is crucial to make or break a perfect evening.</p>
<p>Women, do you wait for the guy to make the moves? Do you play it hard to get and just let him peck you on the cheek? Or, do you take the bull by the horns and kiss him? The dilemma of how, or if you should kiss on the first date!<span id="more-201"></span></p>
<p>Depending on how the night went, both of you will have a pretty good idea of how &#8220;full-on&#8221; you want that kiss to be. But so often shyness creeps in, and that perfect night can end up missing the proper kiss that it was crying out for.</p>
<h2>Key is to know the signs</h2>
<p>Whilst most women will happily take the lead and guide the process, many naturally wait for the guy to take the initiative. Here are the most common signs that a woman will want her date to kiss her:</p>
<ul>
<li>She&#8217;ll be facing him</li>
<li>Her arms will be down by her side</li>
<li>She&#8217;ll be holding his eye contact</li>
</ul>
<p>If she&#8217;s not facing him, and her eyes are wandering elsewhere then it is almost certain that she is giving him the red light. Getting the kiss right at the end of the night can put the perfect end on a perfect night, or leave an embarrassing glitch until your next date (if there is another date!).</p>
<div class="sdukpromo">Watch the video below for a no nonsense guide to that first date kiss. For more like this, check out our <a  href="http://www.smartdatinguk.com/dating-videos.asp">Dating Videos</a>. Enjoy!</div>
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		<title>Signs of attraction – How to tell if someone fancies you</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 11:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Smart Dating UK</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Dating tips and advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[body language attraction]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why is it important? It’s pretty useful to be able to tell if someone likes you or not. Many men claim to be spectacularly bad at ‘reading’ signs of attraction shown by women, whereas many more women seem to have &#8230; <a href="http://www.smartdatinguk.com/blog/dating-tips-and-advice/signs-of-attraction/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>Why is it important?</h2>
<p>It’s pretty useful to be able to tell if someone likes you or not. Many men claim to be spectacularly bad at ‘reading’<strong> signs of attraction </strong>shown by women, whereas many more women seem to have the knack of knowing whether they’re fancied or not. So why do so many of us get it so wrong, and how can we learn to read the signs of sexual attraction?<span id="more-79"></span></p>
<p>If you’re really keen on someone, there’s more at stake, and so it gets even harder to work out whether you’re fancied or not it return. Being able to read body language <strong>has</strong> to be a great skill doesn’t it? In all sorts of situations, not just the romance department. For those of you missing the cues time after time, swat up on these sure signs of body language attraction, say hello to more successful dating and goodbye to hopeless romantic blunders.</p>
<h2>Signs of Attraction</h2>
<ul>
<li>Fiddling with hair, or a necklace</li>
<li>Being nervous or excited around someone</li>
<li>For men, shoulders back, chest slightly puffed out</li>
<li>For women, shoulders back and slightly arched back</li>
<li>Dilated pupils</li>
<li>Holding eye contact</li>
<li>Woman will expose the inside of wrists and palms; a gentle gesture indicating a desire for communication</li>
<li>For men, hands on hips or in belt loops highlights the genitals, and shows readiness for involvement! A sure sign of sexual attraction</li>
<li>Leaning in towards someone while communicating</li>
</ul>
<p>Knowing the signs of physical attraction could mean the difference between a beautifully well timed and confident parting kiss, square on the lips, and a hasty head turn at the wrong moment leading to an embarrassed exit by a couple of red faces who’s paths never cross again. Get it right and no-one leaves with egg on their face!</p>
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