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Granny is my Wingman

The premise for the blog GrannyIsMyWingman is simple: “My granny and me are both single ladies looking for laughs and love in the world of online dating.” But it carries a sort of comic and emotional genius that is far from simple, and more complex that one could ever plan. It is a blog of moments, and the bond between a woman and her grandmother as they both try to meet someone via online dating.

The duo is New Yourker Kayli Stollak, 24, and her grandmother, Gail, who lives in Florida. They offer each other encouragement, and condolences, where necessary. Usually hilarious quips, especially from Gail, litter the site. “Better he stands ya up now, than at the alter,” said Gail, after Kayli was stood up for a date.

An almost instant hit, with 30k views within the first month alone, the blog is going from strength to strength. Hopefully the blog will continue to delight its users, though with dates lined up for January, it might not be long before these witty gals find themselves a special someone, and hang-up the online dating hat. Hopefully it won’t be too soon, though, ladies.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2079467/Granny-wingman-How-blog-relating-online-dating-experiences-girl-grandmother-internet-hit.html#ixzz1i3GfpxRQ

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First Date Tips – Icebreakers

iStock 000014750351XSmall crop First Date Tips – Icebreakers Now, as with anything to do with dating, my primary advice would be to be yourself at all times. Don’t ever try to be something you’re not and if something makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s not going to work. However, for me, on a recent date an icebreaker did help us both out, so, I thought I would share my first date tips on icebreakers. Continue reading

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End of Year Online Dating Surge

Online dating websites across the board are reporting a surge in users of around 15-20%. This makes sense as the period between Christmas and New Year’s is usually one of the busiest times of year for online dating, along with Valentine’s Day. This is because people usually don’t want to be lonely, or seen to be lonely, for these dates (by which I mean calendar dates).

On Valentine’s, everyone is obviously quite coupley that is a couple, and even a few that aren’t (if you go to the same bars as me during the late hours of the night). People swap those gigantic Valentine’s cards, and to not be seen staggering about your daily business with one inconvenciening you can be seen as a social blow.

New Year’s Eve is similar, but not just because of New Year’s Couples’ Kisses (which can be pulled off with any other single around you making it quite a good time for some hot, drunk kissin’). A new year is a new start for a lot of people. This is why people join online dating websites the most at this time of year. Celebrate the new year with new opportunities. But remember, a new date isn’t just for Christmas/New Year’s. Though it doesn’t have to be for life either. If you’re single, why not try to make a special little something work out as your new year’s resolution?

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Speed Dating a Solution for Islam Spinster Problem

Mustafa Rafi, a Moroccan sexologist, is calling for Moroccan and Arab societies to emphasise the benefits of speed dating.  This is due to an increase in single women and a delay in the average age of marriage from the eligible age of marriage. “This is a fast and safe option that would be very successful in Morocco and in the Arab world in general because it revives old customs in a more sophisticated form,” Rafi said.

Sheikh Abdul Bari al-Zamzami said “it is important that such a practice take place under proper supervision so that it does not end up violating Islamic principles”. He went on to say that it’s “preferable that the meeting takes place in the presence of the parents of the man and the woman in order to discuss important details.” But as long as the girl is dressed appropriately, Islam has no rules against speed dating.

What do you think of this spread of speed dating to other cultures? How about how it is able to be used a social solution to problems with society? Leave your comments below.

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eHarmony Aim for UK with Science

10th most visited online dating site in the UK, eHarmony, is set to launch a new £1m advertising campaign for the UK market on Boxing Day.

eHarmony has said that its site is ‘relationship science’ as opposed to just dating. Algorithms and graphs and stuff. They can sort you out with science.

Their UK site is also being redesigned, and new adverts for the site will be airing that will state “Being single can be amazing, so if you’re going to give it up, it has to be for someone who makes being a couple the best thing in the world”. It seems cheesy, but it’s nice for an online dating site to acknowledge that being single has benefits and that you don’t have to date someone to feel accepted.

Do you think it’s good for eHarmony to be focusing on the UK market? 10th place isn’t all that bad anyway. It’s biggest competitor is Match.com in the UK, does this new campaign highlight the differences in the service the way it should? Leave your thoughts in the comments below.

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Women of All Ages Love Toyboys

Toyboywarehouse.com, an online toyboy dating website geared towards helping women find ‘toyboys’ (men younger than themselves), has reported that the lower age limit for women wanting to date younger men is getting lower and lower.

Julia Macmillan, founder of the website, said that: “When [the website] launched the women were mainly 35 and up however over the years since then, we have had to put down the lower age limit for women to 25 as so many women in their 20s are attracted to younger men.” She calls this “the Justin Bieber effect”.

Perhaps as well as the age limit seeming to lower is perhaps simply an increase in the acceptance of women wanting to date younger men. It’s no different at its core to older men wanting to date pretty, young girls (which seems to be super possible when they are rich). For example last week, Caroline Flack (32), Xtra Factor host, announced she was dating Harry Styles (17) of One Direction fame. People seem to be more willing to just have at thee with their dating preferences in this way.

In response to some of the criticism that befell Flack from teenage One Direction fangirls and media alike, Macmillan said that as a couple they’re “Far from ‘slightly creepy’” (as Jan Moir of the Daily Meal called the relationship), “have you seen the photos of them together? They look like they are having so much fun. Isn’t that what it’s all about?”.

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Gizmodo’s Passive Aggressive Ex Gift Ideas

Dating is one thing, but a lot of people currently dating will have dated previously. It happens. As such, it’s likely you all have exes. Like ‘em or love ‘em, they’re here to stay, unless they were in some sort horrific accident involving radioactive waste which is either awful for them; their family; and maybe you, or really badass and involving superpowers like Daredevil or the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, depending on the attractiveness of the ex.

With the run up to Christmas sometimes it can be all like ‘Maybe I should buy my ex a gift?’, out of some sort of lingering sense of obligation which you completely are not expected to fulfil unless they’re still in your life in a reasonably big way. But why not get them a passive aggressive gift that will both show, ‘Hey, I thought about you enough to get you a seasonal gift’, and also, ‘I still sometimes think about sex with you and it makes me resent myself and the years I wasted pouring time and effort into you before your broke my heart’.

Sound like you? Then Gizmodo has a great article about the perfect passive aggressive gifts to get your ex. They’re kind of expensive, but pretty funny. Apple earbuds? Nice touch. Awful tablet? Great. Fleshlight? I dunno, that one’s a little bit creepy. Digital photoframe with ruined memories? Well, that’s full dark-side mode, but also pretty hilarious.

Some other passive aggressive gift ideas for an ex could include some sort of dildo-based device (because a fleshlight isn’t really applicable for a female ex, and I hate to condone sexism), or maybe also a bonnet of withered flowers symbolic of the decay they cruelly left in their wake, also perhaps coffee to symbolise the bitterness of their heart. I’m not bitter! What are you talking about?! Come up with some cool ideas yourself and post them in the comments box below. It’s all about sharin’ and carin’.

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First Date Conversation – Avoiding the Awkward Silences

iStock 000008605061XSmall First Date Conversation – Avoiding the Awkward SilencesFirst date conversation should be easy, but it doesn’t always work out that way. The most terrifying thing about a first date is knowing that an awkward silence is only a breath away – when mouths dry up, time slows down and you can hear your high heels scratch the against the chair and your empty wine glass rattle on the table.

Afterwards, it’s easy to excuse this with “there was no spark” or “we didn’t connect”. But daters need to remember; it’s not always easy, in fact, sometimes it’s hard work and there are times when you need to try a little bit harder to make sure you’re making the most of your date.

Remember, however you first met, be it in a bar, on the net or through a friend; you were both in your comfort zone, the first date takes you out of your comfort zone and creates lots of room for nerves, self-consciousness and a sudden lack of confidence to creep in. So if things don’t happen naturally, plan ahead and have some tricks up your sleeve to get the date off to a good start.

First date conversation starters…

  • Current affairs… You need to be careful here, I would avoid anything that people are likely to be strongly opinionated about or that makes you overly passionate. For example, I wouldn’t start ranting about how important you thought the recent public sector strikes were, only to discover your date is in the Jeremy Clarkson club and believes they should all be shot! But there’s no harm in watching the news, or quickly scanning a news web page, to see if there’s something light hearted and interesting to bring up. I did this today and discovered this headline: ‘Female splits up Toronto’s “gay” Penguins!’ – I am definitely using that on my next date!
  • Any shared interests you have are going to be a winner, for example: sport, music, TV, food or culture. And if you know there’s something they are into, but you don’t know much about, take an interest, they’ll love having a new audience to share their passion with.
  • Compliment them – on their car, job, style or choice of venue. But remember there’s a fine line between compliments and creepiness, so keep it subtle and relaxed. I’d go for “This is a great little spot; I never knew this was here. How’d you find it?” rather than “Wow, you picked a great venue, you must someone who is full of amazing ideas and inspiring concepts.”

What to avoid…

  • Anything to do with past relationships, break ups or previous dates – too heavy, too much, too soon. Stay mysterious and veer away from these topics.
  • Talking about yourselftoo much – you want them to leave the date feeling good about themselves too and to do that you need to make sure you take an interest in them – it’s not a one man show after all.
  • Don’t interrogate them. Keep it light hearted and relaxed – you don’t want them to feel like they are being interviewed. Ask them questions, but try to make them meaningful, not random, for example if by the end of the date you know their shoe size, weight at birth and the forenames of their grandparents you went too far.

First date ice breakers…

And if it’s all a little bit stiff and wooden, I see nothing wrong with an icebreaker to get rid of the tension. I’ll be sharing mine favourite ice breakers on my next post… they can really help set a relaxed and light hearted atmosphere which will start that first date conversation off nicely.

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Come Date With Me – Take Part

Following on with the tremendous success of guilty-pleasure watching ‘Come Dine With Me’ was ‘Come Date With Me’. The premised was similar, except in a date, rather than social, situation. Only the first series of the show has aired so far, but reviews have been positive.

Naturally, then, Channel 4 are already looking into producing another series of Come Date. They’re looking for brand new singles to take part in the show, that may eventually culminate in a lovely dating opportunity (and £1000 to spend together).

“Over four days, three single men and one single woman take turns hosting their idea of the perfect dinner party.

The twist is the boys are also competing to grab the attention of the girl. The one she picks at the end of the week is the one she wants to date, with £1000 to spend together.

If you or anyone you know would like to take part then please call or email, leaving your name and contact details:

comedatewithme@itv.com / 0871 200 3060 (please state name of show you are calling for)”

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NYC Largest Mistletoe Kiss for Operation Smile

FindYourFaceMate, an online dating website that matches people with similar faces, has unveiled “New York City’s  largest mistletoe”: 10′ tall, and 30″ round.

The mistletoe is at Flatiron Pedestrian Plaza for New Yorker couples to kiss under from Tuesday, December 13th, 8pm. FindYourFaceMate will donate $1 (up to $20k) for every couple that takes this world record opportunity  to the charity Operation Smile. This charity provides reconstructive surgery for children with problems such as cleft lips.

Christina Bloom, founder of FindYourFaceMate, said that, “We’re hoping that kissing under FindYourFaceMate.com’s colossal mistletoe sparks waves of love throughout the city,  kicks off a new year of love connections and delivers smiles to the faces of kids who benefit from Operation Smile.” Also, Liking FindYourFaceMate on Facebook will also add a $1 to their overall donation.

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