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If you think about it, meeting people on the street is just so much better. They’re not drunk, there’s no competition, they’re polite, usually flattered by the approach and you can see how they are naturally in their everyday life.

Most of us just wouldn’t dream of approaching women or men on the street from fear of rejection, but armed with a little courage and a combination of improvisation, comedy and advanced banter skills from a Street Improv course you can be meeting all sorts of people and realising massive benefits in all areas of your life.

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Brand new ITV1 Saturday night show is looking for people to set up their friends, relatives or partners!

Do you know somebody who has a hoard of embarrassing items or simply has an amusing collection that you just wouldn’t expect? Do they have a cupboard full of bizarre clothes, objects, memorabilia or hobby craft?

If this sounds like someone you know please get in touch ASAP as we’re looking for people to take part in a surprise game on ITV1’s fun and exciting Saturday night entertainment show Magic Numbers.

To secretly nominate this person please email telling us about them and their items at magicnumbers@cplproductions.co.uk

ITV1 are looking for single men in their 40s and women in their 50s to early 60s who enjoy good food, good company and would love to take a chance on a blind date. In these two particular episodes of Dinner Date, one lucky lady will be given the chance to find true love over three meals…each made by a different gentleman. Please get in touch ASAP if you fit the bill!

If you would like to find out more please email: dinnerdate@hattrick.com oOr call 020 7184 6742 You never know it might be love at first bite!

Call 0208 576 1342 or email danni.mynard@bbc.co.uk to find out more.

Some people are obsessed with looks and unless you’re a pin-up type, they are unlikely to date you again. Others are obsessed with marriage so it will spell the end when you say you don’t want to get hitched till you’re at least 40.

But in most cases, when the first date goes well there are lots of ways you can increase your chances of a second date.

One of the most important rules (and sadly, it is sexist) is that the guy should ask for the next date. I know it sounds really out-dated but according to the experts it’s the only way to go.

Next, never have or ask for sex on a first date.  If you’re a woman, it gives the impression that you’re too “easy” and if you think you’re a gentleman, asking for sex when you first meet contradicts that.

(Some people say there should be no physical contact at all – and if you’re both over 25, then you might feel more comfortable following that rule – but lots of younger singles think it’s natural to at least kiss.)

Next, don’t let the first date go on for too long.  Even if the evening has gone well and you seem made for each other, don’t stay out till the wee hours swapping life stories.

That way, there will still be a little mystery left for the second date and your partner will remember the night as a fun time.

You need to make sure the other person knows you have a character – so don’t go along with every suggestion they make for where to go and what to eat and drink.

If your partner raves about a band that you absolutely loathe, be polite and concede they’re really popular but don’t pretend that you love them too.

Don’t go Dutch on a first date. Again, this can seem old-fashioned but research shows that most women still prefer a man who settles the bill and most men feel much happier doing that.

If a man acts like a gentlemen and holds open a door, hands you a drink or helps with your coat, make sure to say thank you – EVERY time. In surveys of annoying things about first dates, many men say they hate it when a woman doesn’t show any manners.

Women on the other hand say one of the biggest turn-offs for them is when a man can’t resist following an attractive woman across the room with his eyes.

So guys, give your date your undivided attention and don’t be tempted to ogle anyone else!

If you’re shy or first dates make you so nervous that you can’t make decent conversation, make sure you tell the other person.

Better to admit to nerves than have them think you’re boring. Guys can even use it to introduce a possible second date.

This could go along the lines of … “I get shy with new people – but I’m different when you get to know me.”  Suggest that next time you could go ice-skating/cycling/enter a pub quiz together.  (By now you should know what sort of thing she likes to do.)

If one person is too quiet, the other might panic at the thought of having to carry all the conversation next time too – but an activity date would take off the pressure.)

Of course some people over-talk when they are nervous so if that’s you, make sure you give the other person time to talk. Another problem with people who over-talk is that they often start confiding their ‘little secrets’.

Big mistake!!!

You want to seem interesting – but you don’t want to seem too different or nerdy in some way.

So don’t mention that you once called The Samaritans because you were suicidal and make sure you curb your OCD desire to repeatedly polish the cutlery.

Obviously, you don’t want to be dishonest or fake – but you don’t want to risk saying something that will detract from the good first impression you’re trying to create.

In three months time, she’ll still love you even though you’re more frightened of spiders and creepy-crawlies than she is. But save confessions like that for later!

Make sure your date feels special – ask them questions and compliment them – on their hair, their tie or a pretty dress. (Girls are usually thrilled if a guy brings along a little gift like flowers or chocolates – but make sure it is a small present.)

It might be considered wrong for a woman to ask for another date but there’s nothing wrong in presenting an opportunity for it to happen.

That means if there’s a circus in town, you can drop into the conversation that you’ve never been inside a Big Top (if he’s interested, hopefully he’ll offer to take you.)

A guy can find out if the way to a second date is clear (without losing face) by mentioning he’s keen to try the new sushi place that just opened. With any luck, she’ll reply that she wants to go there too and you can fix up the next date.

If not, just let the conversation move onto something else and wait for the next opportunity. If a new art show is opening in town next week, say you’re planning to go along and if she’s free it would be great to meet up there.

If you strike out a second time then she’s probably not keen to meet up again but you’ve avoided the discomfort of asking outright for a date and being turned down.

Well, chances are that things will go just as smoothly as they have done in the past but you shouldn’t ever forget that there are violent and dishonest people out there – and they are always on the lookout for an unsuspecting victim.

Of course, we’re not saying that you should allow fears about crime to turn you into a hermit who avoids new people and unknown places!

After all, you could just as easily become the victim of a random mugging or house burglary – but if you are meeting someone you don’t know very well, it makes sense to take basic precautions.

So, follow our tips for Keeping Safe on a Date …..

1. If you have arranged the date through a dating or introduction agency, check whether it undertakes any checks or vetting of new members. If you use an online dating service, never give your email address to someone until you’ve chatted a few times online or sent messages through the site.
2. ALWAYS arrange the first date at a busy central location. So, if your date suggests meeting at a cark park so you can car-share into town, politely decline the offer. Ditto if he says he’ll collect you from your home address. Yes, it could be that he’s simply a real gentleman who believes in treating his date well – but your parents’ advice holds good whatever your age – never get into a car with a stranger! (Violence apart, giving out your address could put you at risk of a burglary since an accomplice would know that you’re going to be out at a certain time.)
3. NEVER give out detailed personal information in an online profile – such as where you live or that you live alone in a flat with your cats!
4. During the date, make sure you never leave a drink unattended. If you need to go the toilet, finish your drink before leaving the table. If your date offers to get you another while you’re gone, simply say you aren’t sure if you want the same again. Date-rape does happen and your drink could be spiked while you’re gone.
5. Make sure the person you meet doesn’t get sight of anything with your address details and it goes without saying that you should never leave your house keys unattended. They could be stolen or copied.
6. Always tell a friend where you are going and arrange to text them when you arrive and again when you leave.  Although it’s not always possible, it’s good if you can meet in a bar when you know friends will be at another table – or maybe you could set up a double date with a friend?
7. Never allow a new date to take you home. The best idea is to arrange a lift home from a friend. If that’s not possible then get a taxi – but make sure you ring the taxi company yourself. (Fake taxi drivers exist in reality – not just in the movies!)
8. You’ll obviously want to tell your date a bit about yourself – but don’t be too specific until you know each other better.  Life will be so much easier for a stalker if she knows the name of your local pub or the community centre where you play five-a-side football every Thursday night!
9. If possible, arrange a lunchtime date because that way you can set a leaving time and it won’t be difficult to get away. Don’t agree to extend first meetings – for example by going for a walk in the park after lunch.
10. Don’t give your landline phone number to anyone until you get to know them.  Use your mobile to receive calls and if you ring someone from your landline, make sure you withhold your number. If the person is happy to be telephoned at work that will allow you to confirm their identity before you meet.
11. Don’t drink too much! Know your limit and stick to it. Alcohol impairs your judgement. (At best you could make a fool of yourself and at worst, you might end up making wrong decisions.) If you end up staying out for longer than expected, alternate your usual poison with water or soft drinks.
12. Remember, ALWAYS trust your instincts. If anything seems out of the ordinary or makes you uncomfortable – or your date tells you something that contradicts what they’ve said online or by phone – make your exit as soon as possible.

It could simply be that they invented a few facts during early conversations in the hope of impressing you – but why take the risk?

In the words of the hosts, “you’re at a party, the music is blaring and the booze is flowing when you spot some sexpot doing the Macarena that makes your heart go a flutter. However let’s face it, no matter how many times they catch your eye, blow you kisses or even motion you to come over and limber up for Wigfield, you will never, ever have the guts to go and speak to them….(but) what if you had someone to go make a move on your behalf? What if you had an accomplice, a wing man? What if you had…A Meddler of Honour?!”

‘The Meddlers’ are a confident bunch, whose sole purpose is to get people together. Expertly trained by ninjas, apparently, they seek out whomever you fancy and then meddle away until you’re happily chatting and swapping numbers. And before long the whole party is meddling in everyone else’s business and setting every single person up.

So seems that at last, the shy retiring singleton now has someone to make the moves for him. Or her. (But isn’t that what the booze is supposed to do?)

This new party phenomenon has caught the press attention in a big way, with coverage in Grazia, Celebs on Sunday, Company Magazine, Fabulous Magazine, Time out, London Paper, The Star, with even celebs getting hooked up it would appear…

Forget the slow process of getting-to-know-you and all that pavlova. There’s now no excuse not to chat up that honey across the room, and with food and drinks deals, you can always load up on Dutch courage if you feel the need.

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Now all you lucky iPhone users can download our excellent singles event search app, allowing you to search all UK singles events from the comfort of your your phone, wherever you are! Out and about with mates, looking for a good party? Just enter your postcode, hit search, and choose your event, and off you go – what could be simpler? Have fun!

WARNING – THIS APP COULD CHANGE YOUR LIFE! Always read the small print – if you find an event with your new iPhone app and meet the love of your life, then don’t blame us if your life suddenly changes for the better beyond your wildest dreams…

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To get you started, here are 10 ways to meet singles – some might not appeal but if you are keen to find a new partner, then try as many as you can.

• Speed Dating
• Online Dating
• Parties/Singles Parties
• Singles Events
• Travelling or Singles Holidays
• Social Media
• Work
• Introduction Agencies
• Salsa or Jive classes
• Sports or hobbies

Speed Dating

This probably needs little introduction. It’s a hugely popular way of meeting potential partners – and it works! If you don’t want to go alone, then ask a friend along and turn it into a fun night out.

Basically, the organisers get an equal number of men and women together and you spend around three minutes talking to each potential partner. Often the women remain seated at their tables while the men move around the room.

At the end, you make a note of anyone you liked and the organisers match you with people who’ve written down your name. You only spend a short time with each person so you avoid the awkwardness of a blind date where you don’t like the person at all!

Speed dating events are held around the country. To find venues near you, check out Smart Dating’s Singles Events Search)

Online Dating

Now one of the most popular ways to meet someone new and many dating sites have great search facilities to help you find a good match. Of course, some sites are better than others – so you might want to use Smart Dating’s Online Dating Comparison Tool which includes reviews of the major dating sites out there.

Parties or Singles Parties

Parties are a great way to meet potential dates – and cover everything from a late night drinking affair to Christmas parties, weddings or birthdays. (So, next time a workmate invites you to her Dad’s birthday bash, go along – you could just meet the guy of your dreams!)

If you can’t wait for an invite, organised Singles Parties take place regularly up and down the country. Don’t be shy – everyone there is looking for the same thing you are.

Singles Events

Okay folks, this is where you get to pick your poison! There are countless singles events available – from bowling nights or casino lessons to wine tasting and even Wii contests! Choose an event that appeals and enjoy a fun night out with other people looking for a new relationship. It’s relaxed and light hearted – with no awkward silences.

Travelling/Singles Holidays

Many people going on holiday hope they’ll meet someone new and start a relationship but if you’re looking for singles, make sure you choose a spot that’s lively. That way, you’re less likely to spend 10 days in a hotel full of parents with children!

If you don’t have anyone to go with, then consider a Singles Holiday. There is a wide choice available– from a lazy week on the beach to activity breaks like skiing or diving.

Social Media

If you’re under 35, you’re probably a seasoned Facebook and Twitter user already – but don’t just stick to family and friends.

Make contact with friends of friends and renew your friendships with people you knew at school or your first job. Join a Facebook group that fits in with your interests – there are groups for just about any topic you can think of.

If you meet someone you like in the uni bar or at a party, check if they are on Facebook (is the Pope Catholic??) and drop them a note to say ‘hi’.

Work

Often a great way to find a new partner. You already have a lot in common – like work-related stuff, office gossip and so on. You can chat to someone at work on a regular basis and build up a rapport before asking them out.

But remember, if you work in a large office or busy high street store, you’re much more likely to meet someone than if you work in a small newsagent’s shop with two people nearing retirement age. (So if that’s you, then you might want to think about where your career’s heading!)

Introduction Agencies

Provide a great way to meet new people and countless singles have met their match this way. If you’re concerned about safety or don’t what to trawl through profiles on a dating site, an agency gives you the chance to meet people who have been interviewed and chosen as a good match.

It’s not the cheapest way to find your true love but if cost isn’t a barrier then it’s well worth considering.

Salsa or Jive Classes

These are really popular – so look out for adverts in libraries, shop windows and on community notice boards about classes in your area.

Of course, not everyone there will be looking for a partner – lots of couples sign up too – but it can be a great way to meet new singles.

Sports and Hobbies/Interests

Think about joining a local five-a-side football team, signing up for the women’s darts team at your local pub – or check out the courses and classes organised by local councils and community groups.

Many are free or low-cost and they cover a huge range of topics and interests from archery and swimming to computers and cooking. You can start with Beginners Classes so don’t worry if it’s something you’ve never done before.

Of course, everyone won’t be single but you’ll soon find out who is available and who is not. Classmates often go out for a drink or have a coffee afterwards and there are sometimes organised events – such as a visit to an art gallery if you join a painting class.

But if money is really tight at the moment, don’t miss our tips on free or almost-free ways to increase your chances of finding a partner.